Haefner Law Office is thrilled to present a new approach for our clients to resolve their issues and find peace.
St. Louis divorce attorney Mark Haefner has become one of the few family law attorneys in the area to complete mandatory family law mediation training. He can now offer this option to those seeking to end their relationship without the cost and stress of a traditional divorce.
Below is a basic outline addressing many questions people have about divorce mediation.
A Mediated Divorce occurs when two parties seek to simplify the divorce process but have unresolved issues, including child custody, child support, maintenance, and property division.
At Haefner Law Office, the cost for a full mediation is a flat rate of $2,000, and includes the following:
Summation Outline:
Total Value: $4,625
Imagine you’re in a disagreement with someone—a friend, a colleague, or even a family member. You’re both invested in the outcome, but emotions are running high. Wouldn’t it be great if there was a way to make the conversation more productive and less confrontational? This is precisely where a mediator steps in.
A mediator serves as a neutral party, guiding you through the process of dialogue and resolution. They bring clarity, understanding, and fresh perspectives to the table. Think of a mediator as a facilitator who not only listens intently but also helps uncover the underlying issues that might be overshadowing the main disagreement.
By focusing on common interests rather than conflicting positions, a mediator helps de-escalate tension. You gain a clearer view of the situation when emotions are set aside, enabling both parties to move forward constructively. Mediators equip you with the tools needed to reach a resolution that feels fair and satisfactory to all involved.
Mediated divorces are handled out of court, involving a judge only to approve agreed-upon terms. Contested divorces involve courtrooms, judges, and disputes. Mediation can save time money, and stress over traditional contested divorces.
Mediation is non-binding, and therefore someone could change their mind about what was agreed upon. However, should mediation be unsuccessful, or if a party agrees then changes their mind, there will be an extensive outline of what was agreed on, who changed their mind, and other information that each may take to their attorneys. If requested, parties are referred to competent attorneys for issue resolution, possibly avoiding a costly trial in a contested matter.
Mediation is not recommended in cases of domestic violence, unwillingness to attempt resolution, or if there is a belief that the other party is hiding assets. It’s also not suitable if one party refuses concessions or seeks a decision rather than a mutual agreement.
Parties wanting to save money, maintain a cordial relationship, and prefer a quick, amicable resolution. Mediation is suitable for those with children, honest communication about assets, and a desire for confidentiality.
Once mediation has been completed, an overview of what was and was not agreed upon will be drafted for each party to take to their attorney, or if requested, referred to an attorney who can draft the uncontested documents. The mediation report will cover all necessary information and agreements so that documents can be quickly and clearly drafted so that the process is quick and painless for the parties should an agreement is reached.
If you have additional questions regarding a mediated divorce or questions relating to a divorce of any type, please contact 314-200-6101 and speak to one of our attorneys to discuss your options.
The divorce and family law attorneys at Haefner Law Office are here to help answer divorce mediation questions you may have or to act as the mediated divorce attorney for you and your spouse. We offer affordable mediated divorce services to the people of St. Louis, Missouri and the surrounding areas.
If you have any questions, please feel free to give the St. Louis divorce lawyers at Haefner a call at any time.
