While looking at something as serious as the dissolution of marriage, it is important to know what all your options are.
Divorce can be a scary word because of connotations, the finality it brings, and how it seems to end any hope of a positive resolution.
For those who retain the hope or desire to have reconciliation with your spouse, there is a lesser known option known as legal separation.
In the state of Missouri, there is a legal recourse to separating as a couple that is not divorce. In Missouri law, this legal separation is called separate maintenance.
Separate maintenance is where the court does not dissolve the marriage but issues orders and legal protections that are the same as those that would normally be issued in a divorce. The reason why a couple would choose to pursue this route versus a divorce is because they see a possibility of reconciliation at some point in the future, or possibly some benefit to remaining married (such as remaining on spouse’s health insurance). The pleading is extremely similar to a divorce pleading, but simply removes the part about believing that “the marriage is irretrievably broken”.
The legal process of separation begins when one spouse files a petition for separate maintenance to the court in the county in which either spouse has resided for at least ninety days.
The court can choose to enter a judgement of legal separation if it finds a reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved by taking this legal recourse.
Within this agreement is a legally binding contract which both spouses sign. The intention behind this contract is to resolve all issues related to children, property, and debt.
While Missouri is a state that does not require a couple to prove grounds for getting a separation or divorce, if there is one member of the marriage who refuses to grant the separation, it may become necessary to prove the need for the separation or divorce.
The grounds for which a legal separation can be filed are similar to those for divorce. These include, but are not limited to:
A legal separation requires a minimum of thirty days from the time of filing to go into effect.
As the couple remains married, the only thing a couple needs to in order to end the separation in the case of relational reconciliation is to have the court ruling dismissed.
Once this is dismissed, the couple is able to have full legal reconciliation.
In a divorce, the parties are no longer married. When there is a legal separation, the parties remain married until there is a Motion asking to turn the legal separation into a divorce. Unlike divorce, legal separation is an action usually taken with the hope of a reconciliation of the marriage itself. While there are a lot of similar practical legal ramifications of having a legal separation, it is important to know the distinction of separation vs divorce.
There are multiple reasons that a couple would choose to file for legal separation instead of having a divorce.
The married couple may have personal or religious beliefs that do not permit divorce. Filing a legal marriage separation can allow them to remain married, while at the same time, live completely separated lives in every other sense.
As insurance coverage, social security benefits, and pensions are still allowed for the other spouse during a separation, this can be a way of helping to care for the other spouse while not being able to live in the same household.
The legal separation can be a stop on the way to divorce. By choosing to have a separation, this keeps the marriage itself intact. It gives the couple a chance to get their affairs in order and see what long term options they may really want.
After having decided which way to go, it is easy for the couple to choose reconciliation from a separation, while reconciliation from a divorce involves much more paperwork and potential court and legal fees.
It is important to full take consideration of the distinctions when one is looking at separation vs divorce, and which is the best choice for your circumstances. After reading this article, you should have a better understanding of the difference between legal separation and divorce, and which action to pursue.
If you are giving serious thought to legal separation, it is imperative for you to get the experienced legal help that you need. Contact Haefner Law. We have convenient locations in St. Louis and offer complimentary consultations.